OkCupid User: in-D-pop
28 / M / Straight / Single
Brooklyn, NY

My self-summary
my name is nico.
an old soul, a visitor from a time long gone.
feeling lost and unfufilled.
i am digging through the carnations and roses to find cupid, ok or otherwise. a cherub to find me my one.
who will not say no.
who will stay and be my sitting figure
while I paint the dark of love
upon her.

What I’m doing with my life
i breathe music. i am the guitarist and co-songwriter of an indiepop trio. the band is called “▲ n ▲ g r ▲ m s,” and consists of me, my ex-girlfriend piper, and her twin sister minnie. i am still in love with them but i know it cannot be.

I’m really good at
poems

The first things people usually notice about me
my old soul, my iconoclastic style, my gentle eyes.

Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
books: unbearable lightness of being. lolita. brothers kazarmov. scott pilgrim.

movies: through a glass darkly. boys dont cry. speak. deliverance. human centipede.

music: cocteau twins. slowdive. ▲ n ▲ g r ▲ m s. heavenly. tender trap. fleet foxes. antony. lullabies.

food: red velvet cake.

The six things I could never do without
1. a pen
2. one empty journal (which is my soul)
3. a few packets of earl grey tea
4. one lone glove
5. a postcard too faded to read
6. a locket containing your likeness, turning away

I spend a lot of time thinking about
the kind of lovemaking that ruins lives.
me, goosenecked, clutching you as if my body were a magnet, holding you from the abyss by your hands and knees.
you, woken from slumber by the ecstatic sensations happening within, choking on your screams.
we don’t quite fit, like two puzzle pieces that aren’t meant for one another, forced together by a retarded.
the dark of love drizzled upon your body.

On a typical Friday night I am
meeting people.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit
i am legally required to state somewhere on this profile that i am a registered level 3 sex offender. i have fallen victim to the ills of forbidden love one too many times. i am not ashamed of this, as i believe that one person’s shameful secrets are another’s unfettered howls. the events that devolved into to this legal trouble were beautiful in their own way. if what i did was so wrong, then let the seraphs judge me.

I’m looking for

• Girls who like guys
• Ages 18–80
• Near me
• For long-term dating, casual sex

You should message me if
you believe love can be a greater surprise than death.

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